See that sign up there?
Well, that's the message - especially if you're feeling all wound up over what is happening to your love life.
The problem is: Whenever we have a crisis we tend to get emotional and, at the same time, we lose the power to think straight. But, there's a good reason this happens - even though you'd think that at the very time you need to be able to think straight - you literally can't!
I know you probably have a sense of urgency to do something - like now - but that could be your first mistake and, I'm not the only one who is aware of your mental state. There are a few people out there who know you are open to carefully placed, persuasive sales messages and that you are likely to grasp at any bullshit promises to get your lover back. Don't!
The best thing you can do if your head's all screwed up is to go and get some exercise. Go for a walk, get on your bike, take a long swim. Do anything to make your body tired and then go and have a long warm bath. Then - you'll be able to think straight. When you work the muscles of your body they will start to let go and relax. As your body relaxes - so will your mind - always!
If you just feel like crying then do it. Crocodlie tears excrete stress hormones - especially when you don't exercise. Having a good cry will calm you down and it often makes you feel sleepy. Don't fight it - go with it.
Changing somebody's mind about how they think about you, or 'see' you can be very fast - if you get lucky. But, sometimes you have to do some work to get where you want to be and, it also take a while to absorb all the info you need to change your relationships - forever.
For the moment just try to relax and calm down. It will take me a few days to put up all the info you will need to turn things around.
In the meantime, if you really can't control the urge to do something immediately - then tomorrow, I shall give you a couple of links to products that I think could help you.
